Fear and denial are the opposites of acceptance, none of us are perfect, even in our own eyes; all of us have certin traits that, given the chance, we would like to change.
We sometimes become overwhelmed that when contemplating how far short we fall of our ideals, so overwhelmed that we fear theres no chance of becoming the people we'd like to be.
Thats when our defence mechanism of denial kicks in, taking us to the opposite extream: nothing about ourselfs needs changing, we tell ourselfs, so why worry? Neither extream gives us the freedom to change.
J42day - I want to change ...............
Takes time, effort, hard work - you have to look deep into your thoughts and your actions
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What very wise words
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